It can be a struggle for anyone and everyone to meet new people, either when you move to a new city or if your job/study situation changes. In this post I have compiled a list of a few creative ways to get out there and get making friends, the only requirement is a little motivation!
Join a Class
It’s always a lot easier for students to make friends in a new city, but this privilege shouldn’t be reserved only for those attending university! Whatever your hobbies are, joining a class is always a good idea. Whether it’s for cooking, painting, yoga, learning a new language or even an instrument, you can improve your skills while meeting many new people. You can find lots of listings for classes on the internet, and it’s a good idea to check your local library for any advertisements. There are also usually free trials for these types of classes, so you can even save a few euros at the same time!
Go to the Gym
From my experience, going to the gym is an important part of Italian lifestyle. It is also a very sociable place – many people meet at the gym instead of meeting for coffee, and spend a lot of the time chatting while working out. Although gyms in Italy tend to be quite expensive (at least compared to the UK), there are many free trials as well as different types of memberships to suit every budget. Usually the gyms located slightly further outside the centre are cheaper, so if you live on the outskirts it would be a good idea to choose one of these.
Search for Events
With the invention of social media, it is now easier than ever to find events happening in and around your city. There are constantly events happening in Milan – including concerts, art shows, street parties and aperitifs – so there’s definitely something out there for everyone. Facebook has a whole tab dedicated to events near to your location, and you can search the websites of any major club/bar/venue for a list of their upcoming events. I’ve noticed that it is very common in Italy to attend events alone, so don’t be self-conscious if you’d prefer to go solo!
Join an Online Group
Another thing to thank the internet for is the introduction of groups – especially on Facebook and WhatsApp. Whatever your age or demographic, there are hundreds of groups dedicated to meet-ups around the city. If you want to practise your English, I would recommend ‘English Speakers of Milan’ on Facebook – there are always people asking for language exchanges or inviting the group members out for a coffee. It’s also a good idea to join specific websites or forums specific to the things you love to do – for example book clubs or sommelier meetings.
One of the first things I noticed when I came to Milan was just how many people own dogs in this city! The lifestyle here is very busy and people work a lot, so there are always people looking for dog-sitters or walkers. Going to the park with a little furry friend is a great way to meet people (who doesn’t love dogs?), plus you get paid at the same time! You can sign up for dog-walking opportunities at many online sites, or you can advertise at the library or on the previously-mentioned social media groups. The world is your oyster!